Happy Mother’s Day

"A mother is not a person to lean on but a person to make leaning unnecessary." --Dorothy Canfield Fisher (who, coincidentally, has a dorm at Goddard College named after her).

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Isn’t it strange?

Comments on my article on The Huffington Post yesterday featured many protests to my suggestion that, if we really think single motherhood is bad for women and children, then maybe we, as a caring society, should think about how we can help.  Essentially (paraphrasing...

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Blaming single moms

Here is an article on the Huffington Post today about single motherhood, in which seven out of ten commenters seem determined to prove the statistic that seven out of ten Americans think single motherhood is "bad for society."  When did we become so selfish?  Without...

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A tribute to my mother

A tribute to my mother

On Salon today, an essay about my mother.  Here's a sneak peak: My mother was always there. She was a 1950s housewife, living in the '60s and '70s. Whatever my siblings and I needed, she gave: hand-sewn prom dresses; homemade Christmas ornaments; she pulled up a stool...

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What (was!) going on in Japan

This one hour conversation, on the Acupuncture Power Hour with Tim Chambers, aired on March 28th, but I am just getting the link now.  On the page, the show, What's Going on in Japan, appears in the list second to the bottom.

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The Moment I Knew

The Moment I Knew

  "Two decades together. All of my adult life. Every day of it in relationship, in twinship. In compromise. He wanted to go back to that life; he wanted the last six months erased. And faced with that impossibility, before he could go forward he needed me to...

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